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Episode 15 – Surviving Social Isolation! – Building Better Relationships at Home and Work with Angela and Patti Podcast

In this episode, Surviving Social Isolation, Angela and Patti will give some tips and tricks on how to deal with social distancing and survive isolation. Click on the link below to listen to the full podcast episode:

Our prayers and thoughts go out to everyone affected by this virus.  

This is the perfect time to slow down and take some self-care.

How can you still be in contact with others while being isolated?

  1. FaceTime or video chat with family and friends
  2. Adult coloring or coloring with the children
  3. Play board games with family and do a puzzle
  4. Blowing bubbles outside with the children
  5. Draw or write with chalk outside with the kids
  6. Have a virtual meetup on Facebook, Skype, or Zoom. Example: a book club, a meeting you usually might have in person, but instead do it virtually
  7. Start a group text on WhatsApp with people who get you and can help you get support.

    Here’s a journal exercise Angela discussed to move and release those feelings.

    Write down on a piece of paper.

    1. What do you feel you have lost in this situation?
    2. What do you feel you need?
    3. Why do you need this?
    4. How could you meet this need?

    With the feelings: Acknowledge your feelings and tell yourself it’s OK to feel this way. Other people are feeling a lot at the moment, too (their own feelings). The more you acknowledge what you feel, the more it helps others to acknowledge theirs. With the need: Find words that meet your emotional needs, e.g., to feel safe, to get rid of anxiety, to not go crazy!

    Why do you need this? – When you understand more deeply why you need what you think you need, you may begin to see that your “why” can give you more solutions from Patti’s list of me-time or we-time.
    It will help you vocalize your need to others and those you love. Or you may realize something about your need—that it’s actually not that important!

    How could you meet this need? Is it reaching out for support or getting personally creative/nurturing?

    Look at the list of tips we are sharing.
    Notice which of your needs are the most important?
    Often, one habit/action meets all of your needs. If you are an introvert, texting and telepathy are good places to start connecting to others. Telepathy is sending a thought out and putting good energy into it so that later, when you reach out to others, they feel that energy.

    When you send a text, put a good feeling into it—people will feel it. It’s the most amazing thing in these times: people are willing and ready to connect and wish well for others.  

    Angela’s new YouTube channel link: New Energy Body

    Patti’s Prayer of Hope

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Episode 14 – Being A Better Father In Today’s World! – Building Better Relationships at Home and Work with Angela and Patti (Podcast)

In this podcast episode of Being A Better Father In Today’s World! Angela and Patti discussed how a father can be understood, respected, welcomed, and supported in isolation from the coronavirus situation.  Families being in isolation is triggering a lot of uncomfortable feelings and stress.  Click on the link below to listen to the full podcast episode:

The stressors:

Being out of work, isolated, and stressed about money can make people sad, angry, feel out of control, and fear the unknown.  

What is a good father?  

They share equally in household chores, helping with caring for the kids and their activities, reflecting respect and loving-kindness towards the wife/partner/the children’s mother by scheduling date nights and eating dinner with the family at least once a week. They are kind and patient with their partner and children. They are easy to talk to. They share their life experiences, leading by example or telling what not to do, and supporting their family in many ways.   

Angela references the Ted Talk – What Representing Men in Divorce Taught Me About Fatherhood | Marilyn York https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlSwsE22nX0

Set up healthy family boundaries:

1. Set family guidelines of what is acceptable and what is not.

2. Awareness of what is happening and compassionately discussing it with solutions.

3. Make a conscious decision to stop unacceptable behaviors, so everyone feels safe, loved, and protected.

We would love your thoughts and comments:

“What does being a good father mean to you”?

Angela and I would like to thank you for listening.

If you have a topic or question, email us at BBRatHomeandWork@gmail.com.

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Building Better Relationship Podcast – Episode 13 – Angela’s Journey Back to Life – A Life Worth Living – Part 2 – The Healing Miracle and Transformation!

Angela will share her healing experience and transformation process in this podcast episode.  Click below to listen to the full podcast episode:


To learn more about Angela’s New Energy Body YouTube Channel 

If you have a relationship topic you would like us to discuss, please email your relationship topic to BBRatHomeandWork@gmail.com.

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Building Better Relationship Podcast – Episode 12 – Angela’s Journey Back to Life – A Life Worth Living – Part 1 – The Message! What are you doing here?

In this podcast episode, we will be discussing Angela’s health journey for the past few months after having aggressive cancer and her healing transformation.  Click below to listen to the full podcast episode:

For Angela, the aggressive cancer was a chance to see how angry she was at life. The glamour and illusion of how she thought life should be.  Is this how you want to live your life? Are you busy and focused on how things are not the way you want? Angela was supposed to die in all given circumstances and from a physical diagnosis and doctor’s point of view, but she didn’t. The message she received was – No. What are you doing here?

When she was trying to die, and it wasn’t her time, so Angela had to come back—and again, dealing with the illusion of how it should be when you pass over. She got a rude and firm rejection from the spirit world. No! Go back, back to life. Every moment of her sickness after trying to die became a stepping stone to how to come back to life.

Coming next Episode 13 – Angela’s Journey Back to Life – A Life Worth Living – Part 2 – The Healing Miracle and Transformation! Angela will share what she learned from the hospital bed about healing, miracles, and transformation.

To learn more about Angela’s New Energy Body YouTube Channel 

If you have a relationship topic you would like us to discuss, please email your relationship topic to BBRatHomeandWork@gmail.com.

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Podcast Episode 11 – Tips and Tricks When Working With Someone You Don’t Like!

Angela and Patti share communication tips on how to stay in a job and manage complicated relationships.  How do you ask yourself questions to determine how to manage your emotions?  To listen to the full podcast episode, click below:

What does this meme tell you?

Take a look at yourself.  
Is the relationship problem really with you?  
What is it about this person that triggers you?  
Is it past behavior? Do they remind you of someone?  Do they remind you of something you don’t like within yourself?

Angela: Is this a group issue, or is it just for you? Do others in the workplace share your issue? This points to something missing in the group environment.

Use the PAUSE and REFLECT Technique
PAUSE for three to five seconds before responding.  This gives you time to change your response or not respond at all.

What if you receive a nasty passive/aggressive email from your boss or coworker?  
Before responding to the email, write out your response.  Please don’t send it!  Walk away for a while.  Sleep on it, if you don’t have to respond within the same day.  Then rewrite it when you have calmed down.  Have someone else read it that you trust to help tone it down before hitting the send button. 

What to consider:

Should I stay at my current employment or move on?

Make a list of “why to stay” and “why to go”.  Be upfront and honest. No holding back from the truth of the matter! Look at which column has the most reasons?  Make your decision from there.  Is there a good reason to stay?  Or reasons to leave.  

For more information about Becoming a Better Leader [e-Book] click here to download your copy.

Here are other blog posts from Patti that you can explore.

How to Incorporate Pause into Leadership https://wp.me/p3W3dA-VCY

Feeling Stuck in a Dead-End Job?  https://wp.me/p3W3dA-UTu

Warning Signs – Is It Time To Look For Another Job? https://wp.me/p3W3dA-UWs

Are you interested in one-to-one coaching with Patti?  I have coaching packages available.  Contact Patti at patti@coachingforinspirationwithpatti.com

Are you interested in one-on-one coaching with Angela? Angela offers a program called Transformed Relationships. To learn more about the program, you can book a Relationship Clarity Call at https://loveandrelationshipcoach.setmore.com.

If you have a relationship topic you would like us to discuss, please email your relationship topic to BBRatHomeandWork@gmail.com.

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Building Better Relationships at Home and Work [Podcast] – Episode 9 – Take Time for You and Your Family

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In this podcast episode, Angela and Patti discuss the importance of alone time for yourself, incorporating family time, visualizing better family dynamics with some tips and strategies to make it happen.

Patti talks about the benefits of taking time for yourself and spending precious time with family.

  • Let the brain rest
  • Improves concentration
  • Boosts creativity
  • Helps with problem solving
  • Reflection time to understand yourself and be a nicer person
  • Creates relaxation and calmness

Spend time with family, spouse/partner, and give them our full attention without focusing on or thinking of work.

  • How do we do this?
  • When should we do this?
  • How often should we do this?
  • What is important to you?

Reflecting on these questions, we realize we really need our family and our spouse/partner in our lives. They keep us balanced, grateful, and loved.

Here are the links to Patti’s blog posts about spending time with family and planning a vacation:

Summertime Inspiration https://wp.me/p3W3dA-URL

Time to Plan a vacation https://wp.me/p3W3dA-UHC

Do you want harmony and balance in your life? Patti has created a 21-Days Optimal Work/Life Balance Program. The program is designed to help you focus, de-stress, and gain perspective. During the 21 days, you will receive emails with tips and a downloadable workbook.  www.CoachingforInspirationwithPatti.com

Do you want even more work-life balance strategies? Join the Facebook group Work-Life Balance with Patti.

Angela talks about Family Dynamics, and they can often be challenging for reasons we can’t always put our finger on. There is often tension in families that creates unexpressed hurts from a situation in the past. So, if you have a challenging family, start by realizing your family is not unusual! We all have quirks in families, and some of us have really strong issues in families, so we tend to run away from them!

How do you move past these?

Go back to questions above:

  • How do we do this?
  • When should we do this?
  • How often should we do this?
  • What is important to you?

Do you want to work on changing your family dynamics? Angela has a one-on-one coaching program.

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If you have a relationship topic you would like us to discuss, please email your relationship topic to BBRatHomeandWork@gmail.com

Thank you for listening and sharing. 🙂 

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Building Better Relationships at Home and Work [Podcast] – Episode 8 – Rediscovering Yourself and Rebirth!

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What is the concept of Rediscovering Yourself and Rebirth?

Each day is a new beginning.  The sunrises and the sunsets. Time to release the old and start again.  Wiping the slate clean.  It’s often difficult to release bad situations, relationships, or past regrets.  Rediscovering is about looking forward to the future and letting go of the past, which is holding us back from what we want.  Watching a sunrise affirms a brand new day, and life continues to go on. In the life cycle, plants die in the fall and are reborn in the spring. There is a time to end and a time to begin.  The challenge is facing the fear of transition or change and being willing to rediscover yourself.  Inspired by Denise Linn, Soul Coaching Oracle Cards.

A Time for Everything    

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 New International Version (NIV)

Patti talks about career transition and making a career journal. You can learn more about these topics from the following blog posts below:

Making a Career Journal 

Lifescaping ~ What is holding you back in life?  

Feeling Stuck in a Dead-End Job? 

This Job is Killing Me… What to Do? 

Angela talks about rebirthing the Body. Sometimes, your body needs to be restored so your natural rhythms can come into sync, and you can rebirth your spiritual energy or reinvigorate your aspirations.

Creating a “Fallow field” for the Personality Habit of Pushing and giving yourself time to slow down.   Become in rhythm with your needs and nature, and do not rush.  Modern Society forces you to rus,h and it is becoming faster.   How do you say – NO and find your natural rhythm? Letting go.

On May 11, 2019, Angela will be doing a Movement Meditation ~ Align with Nature in Sydney, Australia.  https://www.facebook.com/events/308427649823591

Interested in releasing karma?

Interested in releasing karma?  Why not set up a Relationship Clarity Call with Angela.

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Episode 7 – How Change Inspires Relationships! [Podcast]

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Building Better Relationships at Home and Work with Angela and Patti

Patti’s Thoughts on work relationships:
Change is good in the workplace because people don’t get bored, and they learn new things.  It is easy to go through the motions if you do the same job function daily.  People leaving the team and new people coming onto the team are good.  New ideas and new energy come to the team.  New projects and different challenges keep everyone thinking and motivated.  The same old stuff day after day demotivates staff.  Learning new ways and methods helps the team members grow.  Now, change can come with upheaval at first.  People have to learn how to communicate with each other.  There may be some growing pains.  It also puts a new perspective on the job.  If you don’t like what is changing, you have other options to move on yourself.  That isn’t a bad thing.  It is a way of reflecting, is it time for me to make a change as well?  It could be a new boss or a new job assignment you don’t like.  What is this telling you about yourself or the job?  Is it time to move on, or will I stay and see how it works?  Change is part of life; however, it is scary and uncertain at first.  Sometimes it is for the better, and sometimes it helps us improve through the experience.  It depends on how hard you fight it.
 
Angela’s Thoughts on Personal Relationships:  
Your partner is a mystery. Too often, we get comfortable or bored with our partner. How do you know? Do you know them? You know their habits.  Do you know them?  How can you see your partner as a mystery? Do you have a question that you want to ask your partner? Have you already assumed you “know” how they will answer? Notice how you tend to put them in a box.  Some ideas on how to get to know your partner in different contexts.  Board games that involve moral questions like “scruples,” a new card game, a dance class, a challenging hike or outdoor adventure, book a trip somewhere for a weekend, and don’t tell them where you’re going.  Take a train ride instead of the car.  Try different modes of transport and feel what it’s like to share a new experience with your partner.
 
 
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Episode 2 – Getting Social Beyond Social Media – Building Better Relationships at Home and Work with Angela and Patti [Podcast]

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Episode 2Getting Social Beyond Social Media

People are losing face-to-face contact. There is homeschooling, working from home, solo entrepreneurs, single parenting, and much more. Distance over the internet makes people bold; they feel comfortable behind electronics. Interacting face-to-face makes shy people feel more uncomfortable, and they are not forced to socialize.

How do you get social away from the phone?

Recap:

  • Go face-to-face with others and put the phone away.
  • Go to the same place and time every week, and you may see the same people and make a connection.
  • Start going to meetup groups.

Patti’s view:

  • Stretch out of your comfort zone.
  • People cut themselves off from social opportunities before they even get there.

Strategy: Pick a place and go once a week. Get past the “what if” of past fear of rejection. Sometimes, you may never know who you may meet by taking a chance. Take the risk and leave the what-ifs behind. The most fun times have been talking to strangers about the weirdest things!

Angela’s view:

Connecting to your heart and writing exercise.

What do you want to experience socially?

  • Not everyone wants romance.
  • If someone invites you to go somewhere.  Say yes.
  • Find people with the same interests as you.

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