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How to Get Out of a Rut: Simple Shifts to Feel Inspired Again

We’ve all experienced moments when life feels very heavy and our motivation is lacking. It’s a signal that something needs to shift.


To watch the full video on YouTube: How to Get Out of a Rut.

Recently, someone made a harsh comment that sent me into a spiral of self-doubt. For a few days, I felt unmotivated and creatively blocked, like I couldn’t move forward.

Eventually, I paused and reflected: Who am I really doing this for?

The answer became clear for me; it’s for all of you who are seeking encouragement and calm in the chaos of life.

When we’re in a rut, it’s tempting to think we need a complete overhaul at once. However, it’s often the small changes that make the most difference. Ruts thrive on sameness, so anything new, even small, helps.

Journaling is one of the most powerful ways to gain clarity. It helps you see patterns, release emotions, and focus on what truly matters.

Reflect on this question:

🖋️ What shift will I make today to inspire me and get me out of this rut?

Affirmation: I trust that ruts are temporary, and I have the strength to move forward.

You may be surprised how one thought can begin to create change, and your outlook shifts from feeling demotivated to inspired.

If you’re ready to rediscover clarity, balance, and purpose, explore my Coaching and Reiki services.

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Posted in Blog, Building Better Relationships Podcast

Episode 91 – The Cost of Putting Yourself Last

What happens when you’re always last on your own list? Does your energy fade, your joy disappear, and even your closest relationships start to suffer?

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In this heartfelt live conversation, Angela and Patti open up about the emotional and physical costs of prioritizing others over yourself, transforming both your personal and professional life with encouragement, practical tips, and gentle reminders.

We explore the hidden costs of self-neglect, ranging from burnout and resentment to a loss of identity. Discover small, powerful steps to help without guilt and create healthier, happier relationships.

Self-Reflection-Journal Prompt: What’s one area where you can communicate your needs today?

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Posted in Blog, Personal Inspiration, Video, YouTube

How Gratitude Reduces Stress and Creates Balance at Work and Home

Life is full of work deadlines, family responsibilities, and the never-ending to-do list. In the midst of all this, gratitude becomes a practice that can shift our perspective during the day.

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Stress can show up from decision overload, constant busyness, and the feeling that there’s never enough time. Gratitude offers a pause, a way to breathe and reframe our perspective.

By practicing the Reiki principle, ‘Just for today,’ I am grateful for my many blessings, which can help shift the focus from stress to peace.

This simple yet powerful reminder brings us back to the present moment.

Affirmation for Gratitude:

Just for today, I will give thanks for the little things.

Applying Gratitude at Work and Home:

At work: Before a meeting, silently name one thing you’re grateful for.

At home: Think of one thing you are thankful for.

Starting the day with gratitude, even on the most stressful days, feels better with a sense of thankfulness.

A Self-Reflection Journal Prompt:

How does practicing gratitude help lessen your stress?

If you tried one of these gratitude practices, let me know in the comments how it went.

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Posted in Blog, Building Better Relationships Podcast

Episode 90: When We Stop Showing Up: Silent Quitting

When employees start checking out, the entire team feels it. Tasks may get accomplished, but the creativity, collaboration, morale, and trust at work begin to erode.

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In this episode, we discuss the phenomenon of silent quitting, examining its causes and how it erodes trust over time. At home, it may look like going through the motions without emotional connection. At work, it can mean avoiding challenges, withholding ideas, or doing the bare minimum.

By re-engaging, setting aside time to have conversations, showing appreciation, and actively participating in shared responsibilities.

🎧 Take a listen to this episode to see your engagement level and learn more strategies to reconnect with purpose.

Discover the Building Better Relationship Journal & Meditation to Empower you for Beautiful Relationships ⁠.⁠ 

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Posted in Blog, Leadership Inspiration, Personal Inspiration, Work-Life balance, YouTube

The Experience of Decision Burnout and Overwhelm

Have you ever thought, ‘I can’t make one more decision right now’?

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From the daily grind of work duties to juggling family time, the daily choices can slowly wear you down and may lead to decision burnout and overwhelm, which is more common than you think.

Decision burnout or overwhelm happens when your mind becomes overloaded with too many decisions to make within a short period.

As time goes on, you may be experiencing:

  • Irritable with making decisions
  • Procrastination or Avoidance of making decisions
  • Overwhelmed by making decisions

Taking occasional breaks or going for a brisk walk can help.

Affirmation: I allow myself to pause before making decisions.

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Posted in Blog, Reiki, Video

What Does It Mean to Work Honestly?

Have you ever looked at your to-do list and thought, “This just doesn’t feel like me anymore?”

Watch the video: 👉 What Does It Mean to Work Honestly?

We often find ourselves caught in routines and expectations that once worked for us, but no longer do.

This video is an invitation to pause and reflect: Does the way I work still feel true to who I am?

The Reiki principle: Just for today, I will do my work honestly, isn’t just about avoiding deceit; it’s about doing honest work in a way that feels true to you, your values, and your purpose. It’s about giving your best from a place of integrity, not exhaustion.

We often think of honesty as something we give others. However, honesty with ourselves means admitting that our current work is draining us or realizing that a new direction may be calling.

Honest work doesn’t mean perfect work; it means showing up fully and truthfully, both to yourself and to others.

If you’re feeling unfulfilled or disconnected at work, feeling burned out, or simply longing for deeper meaning in your job, you deserve work that feels good to you, not a jaded version. Sometimes honesty means admitting something needs to change.

I would love to hear your thoughts. What does honest work look like in your life right now? Leave a comment below.

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Posted in Blog, Building Better Relationships Podcast

Episode 89 – Stop Doing It All: Break the “Someone Else Will Do It” Trap

We explore why we wait, overdo, or check out and how to break the “someone else will do it” cycle.

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Have you ever looked around at home and work and felt alone in your effort?

You plan the meetings.
You do the dishes.
You check on your co-worker, friend, or parent.
And sometimes, you wonder:
Why does it always fall on me? You’re not alone in this feeling.

In our newest episode of Building Better Relationships at Home and Work, Angela and I explore the “someone else will do it” trap that so many of us have experienced, whether consciously or not.

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What If Today Were Anger Free

We don’t always choose what triggers us, but we can choose how we respond.

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In this post, you’ll find the full video, a guided reflection, affirmations to support your emotional peace, and a simple practice to use anytime anger starts to rise.

In this gentle reflection, I explore another Reiki principle:

Just for Today, I Will Not Be Angry.

We’ll talk about how anger often shows up when we feel unseen, unheard, or overwhelmed, and how Reiki helps us lovingly release it. Whether the frustration is your own or something you’ve picked up from others, this principle reminds us we have a choice.

And in leadership, whether at home or work, clarity is everything. This Reiki principle reminds us that we can lead with calm, not chaos.

🌬️ Just for today, return to calm.

How does anger show up in your life, and how do you release it?
I would love to hear your reflections in the comments below. 🦋 ~ Patti

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What Worry Does to Us: A Reiki Reflection on Letting Go

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Worry can be so loud at times, or silently evading thoughts. Either way, it’s heavy. And over time, it can pull us away from our presence, peace, and purpose.

One of my favorite Reiki Principles:

Just for today, I will not worry.

This simple phrase serves as a great reminder to breathe, reset, and return to a state of peace and calm, especially during stressful times.

In this video, we explore this beautiful Reiki principle, and I share a few calming ways to gently release the weight of worry, if only for today. It’s not about never worrying again; it’s about learning how to pause, reflect, and reclaim calm.

🦋 In this video and post, we will explore:

  • What worry does to our mind, body, and energy
  • Simple practices to ease stress in the moment
  • Reflective journaling prompts to help you let go

Worry is something we all carry, but we don’t have to hold onto it forever.

I would love to hear your reflections in the comments:

💬 What helps you let go of worry?

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Posted in Blog, Personal Inspiration, Polls

🦋 How Do You Reset After a Stressful Day?

Life is overwhelming at times, with busy schedules, constant demands, and unexpected challenges. But even on the hardest days, simple practices can help us pause, breathe, and reset.

What helps you find calm after a stressful day?

*A quiet walk outside?

*Talking to a loved one?

*Journaling your thoughts?

*Listening to calm music?

*Meditating

*Enjoying a hobby?

*All the above?

*Or something unique that works just for you?

I’ve created a quick poll to see what brings others peace. Your input might inspire me and someone else to try a new way to unwind and find peace.

Please take a moment to vote, and feel free to add your favorite reset ritual in the comments. Let’s encourage and support one another in finding more ease and balance in our daily lives. ~ Thank you, Patti 🙂

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