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When Kindness Leads the Way – In Work and Life

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Kindness is more than being polite or pleasant. It’s a choice, a way of moving through the world with compassion, empathy, and respect.

Every moment offers a decision:

  • Will I react with frustration?
  • Or respond with calm and grace?

When we choose kindness, we soften tension, build trust, and strengthen relationships in ways that feel natural and authentic.

Simple daily examples:

  • Smile at someone passing by
  • Say hello or thank you
  • Offer a compliment
  • Slow down long enough to truly see others

These examples have a ripple through our day and often uplift the people around us more than we realize.

Kindness in the Workplace: 

In the workplace, kindness is a powerful yet often overlooked leadership skill.

It may look like:

  • Listening without interrupting
  • Acknowledging others’ efforts
  • Offering help without expecting anything in return
  • Choosing calm communication, even in stress

When we pause before responding to a stressful email or a heated moment in a meeting, it can shift the entire tone of a conversation.

Kindness Toward Yourself:

Many of us freely offer kindness to others, yet struggle to provide it to ourselves. Self-kindness fuels resilience, clarity, and emotional well-being. Without it, we risk burnout, compassion fatigue, and inner frustration.

Self-kindness may look like:

  • Take breaks without guilt
  • Say “no” when you need to
  • Rest when your body calls for it

When kindness leads the way, others naturally feel safer, calmer, and more connected, and this is how compassion spreads, one moment at a time.

What is one small act of kindness you can offer today?

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How to Get Out of a Rut: Simple Shifts to Feel Inspired Again

We’ve all experienced moments when life feels very heavy and our motivation is lacking. It’s a signal that something needs to shift.


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Recently, someone made a harsh comment that sent me into a spiral of self-doubt. For a few days, I felt unmotivated and creatively blocked, like I couldn’t move forward.

Eventually, I paused and reflected: Who am I really doing this for?

The answer became clear for me; it’s for all of you who are seeking encouragement and calm in the chaos of life.

When we’re in a rut, it’s tempting to think we need a complete overhaul at once. However, it’s often the small changes that make the most difference. Ruts thrive on sameness, so anything new, even small, helps.

Journaling is one of the most powerful ways to gain clarity. It helps you see patterns, release emotions, and focus on what truly matters.

Reflect on this question:

🖋️ What shift will I make today to inspire me and get me out of this rut?

Affirmation: I trust that ruts are temporary, and I have the strength to move forward.

You may be surprised how one thought can begin to create change, and your outlook shifts from feeling demotivated to inspired.

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How Gratitude Reduces Stress and Creates Balance at Work and Home

Life is full of work deadlines, family responsibilities, and the never-ending to-do list. In the midst of all this, gratitude becomes a practice that can shift our perspective during the day.

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Stress can show up from decision overload, constant busyness, and the feeling that there’s never enough time. Gratitude offers a pause, a way to breathe and reframe our perspective.

By practicing the Reiki principle, ‘Just for today,’ I am grateful for my many blessings, which can help shift the focus from stress to peace.

This simple yet powerful reminder brings us back to the present moment.

Affirmation for Gratitude:

Just for today, I will give thanks for the little things.

Applying Gratitude at Work and Home:

At work: Before a meeting, silently name one thing you’re grateful for.

At home: Think of one thing you are thankful for.

Starting the day with gratitude, even on the most stressful days, feels better with a sense of thankfulness.

A Self-Reflection Journal Prompt:

How does practicing gratitude help lessen your stress?

If you tried one of these gratitude practices, let me know in the comments how it went.

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What Does It Mean to Work Honestly?

Have you ever looked at your to-do list and thought, “This just doesn’t feel like me anymore?”

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We often find ourselves caught in routines and expectations that once worked for us, but no longer do.

This video is an invitation to pause and reflect: Does the way I work still feel true to who I am?

The Reiki principle: Just for today, I will do my work honestly, isn’t just about avoiding deceit; it’s about doing honest work in a way that feels true to you, your values, and your purpose. It’s about giving your best from a place of integrity, not exhaustion.

We often think of honesty as something we give others. However, honesty with ourselves means admitting that our current work is draining us or realizing that a new direction may be calling.

Honest work doesn’t mean perfect work; it means showing up fully and truthfully, both to yourself and to others.

If you’re feeling unfulfilled or disconnected at work, feeling burned out, or simply longing for deeper meaning in your job, you deserve work that feels good to you, not a jaded version. Sometimes honesty means admitting something needs to change.

I would love to hear your thoughts. What does honest work look like in your life right now? Leave a comment below.

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What Worry Does to Us: A Reiki Reflection on Letting Go

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Worry can be so loud at times, or silently evading thoughts. Either way, it’s heavy. And over time, it can pull us away from our presence, peace, and purpose.

One of my favorite Reiki Principles:

Just for today, I will not worry.

This simple phrase serves as a great reminder to breathe, reset, and return to a state of peace and calm, especially during stressful times.

In this video, we explore this beautiful Reiki principle, and I share a few calming ways to gently release the weight of worry, if only for today. It’s not about never worrying again; it’s about learning how to pause, reflect, and reclaim calm.

🦋 In this video and post, we will explore:

  • What worry does to our mind, body, and energy
  • Simple practices to ease stress in the moment
  • Reflective journaling prompts to help you let go

Worry is something we all carry, but we don’t have to hold onto it forever.

I would love to hear your reflections in the comments:

💬 What helps you let go of worry?

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Unplug to Reconnect with What Matters


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Are you feeling overwhelmed, overstimulated, or simply longing for a moment of stillness? This video is for you.

In this affirmation and coaching session, I gently guide you through a mindful reminder:

🦋 “I choose to schedule time to unplug each day.”

Why Unplugging Matters More Than Ever

When we’re always “on,” it’s easy to lose touch with:

  • Our energy levels
  • Our priorities
  • Our ability to be fully present

The choice to unplug, even for a few minutes, helps quiet the noise and nurture the calm within.

Gentle Ways to Make Unplugging a Daily Habit

  1. Unplugging for five minutes can reset your nervous system.
  2. Pick a consistent time – Mornings or evenings.
  3. Create a calm space – Light a candle, play soft music, or take a slow breath.
  4. Add unplugging to your calendar.

When you unplug, you’re not tuning out. You’re tuning in to peace, clarity, and balance.

💬 Self-Reflection:

👉 What’s one small way you can unplug Today and reconnect with what truly matters?

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🦋 Hi, I am Patti Oskvarek of Coaching For Inspiration with Patti. I’m a Leadership, Work-Life Balance, and Life coach, as well as a Reiki Master, who helps individuals achieve their dreams, goals, and aspirations, and live more purposeful and balanced lives outside of work.

I share strategies for achieving work-life balance, practical work and life tips, work-life balance affirmations, building better relationships, navigating leadership situations, and more.

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From Pressure to Peace: A Calming Affirmation for Inspiring Leaders

When was the last time you felt truly calm in the middle of your busy day?

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In a world that promotes hustle and constant doing, I am sharing this Affirmation as a gentle reminder that peace is a choice and a strength.

As inspiring leaders, we don’t have to push ourselves to the edge to make an impact. We can rise higher when we lead from a calm place, when we choose clarity over chaos and stillness over burnout.

💫 Affirmation:

“I choose peace over pressure.”

Say it slowly. Breathe it in. Let it soften the tension in your shoulders. This simple phrase holds powerful energy. It reminds us that peace is always an option, even in the midst of deadlines and decision-making.

Take a moment to breathe, reset, and return to what truly matters. 

These few seconds of calm can shift your entire day.

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I Delegate with Trust, Grace, and Confidence 

Are you carrying more than your share lately?

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If you’re an overgiving leader, caregiver, or someone who naturally gives so much to others, delegation might feel hard, even guilt-inducing. I understand because I’ve been there, too.

Hi, I’m Patti from Coaching for Inspiration with Patti, and I created this short video to remind you of something powerful:

“I delegate with trust, grace, and confidence.”

Letting go doesn’t make you weak. It’s an act of leadership, love, and self-respect.

In the video, I share a journaling tool called the 3-Column Clarity Method. It’s a gentle way to reflect on your responsibilities and gain peace around what’s yours to hold and what’s okay to let go.


✍️ Here’s how the 3 columns work:

  1. Tasks that Inspire & Energize Me (Keep):
    What brings you joy, energy, or a sense of purpose?
  2. Tasks Only I Can Do (Must Do):
    What requires you and your expertise?
  3. Tasks I Can Delegate or Release:
    What can be shared, outsourced, paused, or a growth opportunity for someone else?

This simple journaling practice can shift everything. It clarifies, reduces burnout, and helps you move forward with intention and peace. This week, delegate one small task at work or home. Notice how it feels. Next week, try again.
The more you practice, the more natural it becomes.


Let This Affirmation Inspire You:

“I delegate with trust, grace, and confidence.”

If this message resonates with you, please share the video or blog with someone who might want it today. 🦋 

👉 About Patti

🦋 Hi, I’m Patti Oskvarek of Coaching for Inspiration with Patti. I’m a Leadership, Work-Life Balance, and Life coach and Reiki Master who helps individuals achieve their dreams, goals, and aspirations and live more purposeful and balanced lives outside of work.

I share strategies for work-life balance, work and life tips, work-life balance affirmations, building better relationships, navigating leadership situations, and more.

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Work-Life Balance Begins with One Happy Moment — Are You Creating Yours? 🦋

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the habit of simply getting through the day, moving from one task to the next, always busy but rarely fulfilled. As a Leadership and Work-Life Balance Coach, I see amazing, hardworking people feeling like life is passing them by.

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Let’s explore:

🦋 Work-life balance isn’t a destination; it’s in the little moments.

We will explore and reflect on this powerful Work-Life Balance Affirmation:

“I am creating happy moments and memories.”

This affirmation is more than words—it’s a call to pause, breathe, and truly live.

When was the last time you let yourself enjoy something simple?

A walk, a call with a friend, laughing, or being still are the moments that refill you and help you stay grounded in joy.

In the video, we explore:

  • How small joys help shift our mindset and energy
  • Why do we often forget to create happy memories
  • Simple ways to invite more peace and presence into your day
  • A gentle challenge to help you live with more intention today

What’s one happy moment you’ve created recently or would like to make this week?

🦋 Share it in the comments—I would love to hear your heart and celebrate your joy.

👉 About Patti

🦋 Hi, I’m Patti Oskvarek of Coaching for Inspiration with Patti. I’m a Leadership, Work-Life Balance, and Life coach who helps individuals achieve their dreams, goals, and aspirations and live more purposeful and balanced lives outside of work.

I share strategies for work-life balance, work and life tips, work-life balance affirmations, building better relationships, navigating leadership situations, and more.

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Work-Life Balance (Affirmation) Card – Developing Positive Work-Life Balance Habits

🌼 What brings you true joy these days?

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In this video, I will pick a Work-Life Balance Affirmation Card from my Work-Life Balance Affirmation Cards and share my point of view on this card and the topic. 

In this video, I’m sharing one of my original work-life balance affirmation cards to help you reset your mindset, create healthy routines, and stay on track toward a more balanced and fulfilling life.

💬 “Each day, I’m developing positive work-life balance habits.”
Let this affirmation inspire your day! Join me as I guide you through reflection, gratitude, and planning for a joyful and peaceful weekend. 🦋

Let’s talk!👇
✨ How are you creating positive work-life balance habits?
✨ What’s your weekend plan—relaxation, recharging, or something fun?
Leave a comment—I would love to hear from you!

This video invites you to pause, reflect, and ask:
☀️ Am I enjoying life, or just going through the motions?

Let’s bring back laughter, connection, and genuine happiness.

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📣 I’d love to know in the comments:
🌼 How are you creating balance in your life?
🌼 What brings you true joy these days?
🌼 Are you laughing enough?

This video’s Work-Life Balance Affirmation:

Each day, I’m developing positive work-life balance habits.

👉 About Patti

🦋 Hi, I am Patti Oskvarek of Coaching For Inspiration with Patti. I’m a Leadership, Work-Life Balance, and Life coach who helps individuals achieve their dreams, goals, and aspirations and live more purposeful, balanced lives outside of work.

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00:00 Intro 

00:36 Shuffling card

 01:12 Share Selected Work-Life Balance Affirmation Card and my Point of View

05:01 Thank you for watching

DISCLAIMER | These videos are published for educational purposes and entertainment. All opinions are from my point of view.

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